In our life 5- Most Closest things we cannot choose

In Our Life 5- Most Closest Things we cannot choose, We may think we are living in a free world where we can choose each and everything whatever we like, but it is one kind of illusion, but how? I am going to show you most practical things in our life we are unable to choose, even some time we say we are in democratic world so we should have freedom to choose anything which is attach in our life, but actual fact is that, yes, we can choose our color of dress, we can choose our size of shoe and we can choose our gadget.

But in our life 5- most important things we cannot choose what so ever-

1.      Our date of birth
2.     Our neighbors
3.      Our parents and family
4.     Our Diseases
5.      When we will die?

We live in such a wonderful world where we have each and everything to live our life, but most of the time we are unhappy, grumbling, try to search happiness in wealth or gadget, which is completely our mind illusion, because our feelings of gratitude gives us happiness which is completely depends upon our pure mind, that’s why you can see person sleeping road side or slam area , they seem to be more happy than so many others who acquired so many things in their life.

But most important things about life is “there are things you cannot change , but there are things you can change” that is your mind and attitude which play a great role to make you happy and prosperous, one interest fact about mind is, it has such a power that it can make you experience heaven sitting in heal ,and other way around it can make you experience heal sitting in the heaven.

Our date of birth:

Our date of birth and our name we do not choose, but we accept it celebrate it and move ahead, every times things may not come in favor of us if we believe it then our life will be happy and prosperous. Many person believe that date of birth and time is very important in their life to become a lucky or unlucky, it is kind of belief system we have, nothing to do about it, but we can’t decide who will be birth when?

Our neighbors:

We may build our house at any location but who will be our neighbor it will not have in our hand because anybody can be our neighbor, either we like it or don't like it, it does not matter, many kind of disturbance may come from neighborhood, sometime we even fight with them but we have no choice what so ever.

Let me give you a broad example if chosen neighbor would have in our hand, then we never chosen Pakistan and china as our neighbor becoming Indian because so much our revenue are wasting for those country of becoming our neighbor, another most interesting example is, if any United State (US) soldier fight in Afghanistan heating the afghan and die and later if he born in Afghanistan he will begin his day heating American, what a world we are living in.

Our parent and family:

Some time most of our problem arise from our family but interesting  fact is that we have no choice to choose our parent , brother and sister, some time we even blame our parents for not providing our required things or even our own fate because they unable to provide us enough resource that’s why we could not reach such and such position and blame them for our ill fate, but we have no choice.

And other hand parents also do not have any choice whose going to be his child and blame them not to following their instruction or how they want to be like , most of the cases they unable to do it, that’s why they depressed, frustrated and unhappy to think about their future if they unable to become successful in their life.

Similarly brother, sister, spouse also fight with each other, because their mind frequency some time not matched, except that, they accept each other and move ahead, because they do not have choice.

Our Disease:

This is most interesting and practical things because nobody want to inflicted by diseases and every one want to live healthy life, but always it is not in our hand, if it would have happened then no eye surgeon should not have eye glasses and we have seen most of eye surgeon wearing glasses, and no heart surgeon should not have bypass surgery, I think many heart specialist have bypass surgery and no oncologist should have acidity, I hope most of them have acidity.

So as a common man what we will do, we have no choice about diseases, sometime we have inflicted such as disease like type-1 diabetes, HIV, or any other chronic disease which occur due to our genetic disorder ,so how can anyone say we are living in a free world and we can choose anything?

When we die?

This is most mysterious word for all of us as a human being when we will die (except suicide)? in a simple sense we can say, it's just one breath away, but we are not living with this sense, because as a human being now a day, we estimated our life probable 70-80 years longer we are going to live.

And according to that we make our different kind of goal, plan and everything, there is nothing wrong about it, but we are very rarely think about our date of last breath, that's why so much anti-social activities, rape, crime are happening day by day, because at any cost, we are trying to decorate our life with many dream, desire and everything, but most important thing we do not acknowledge in our life when we are going to die.

We have no choice and control over all these things in out life which I mentioned elaborately, but since we are not bothering about it.

final word we hope this article will help you to know in life 5-most closest things we have no choice

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